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Lately ive been feeling really..just plain ugly. i mean sometimes i look in the mirror and im like wow im kindA pretty. but then like sometimes its like i see something totally different. i feel really self-conscious about myself when i go to school games. like hockey and basketball games. i feel like when people look at me..their lookin at my flaws. i know most arent lookin at me because they think im [pretty] well i shouldnt assume but you know. i hate looking at the super gorgeous girls..it just makes me really jealous..but then again when i see other people im that that i look the way i am. i mean i cant take what i have for granite. but i dont know what can i do to make me less self-conscious. and less shy and more outgoing and not care what people think of me.
thanks alot
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You can't have any confidence until you learn to love yourself for who you are and the things you have. You should feel lucky that you have what you do. So many girls think that other girls look better then them. I used to have a very low self-esteem but I didn't want to live my life every day saying.. ew what the hell is wrong with me? My hair is so ugly, ahh I'm breaking out & this and that. Once I wrote down all the things I wanted to change about me.. the list was very long. I put the list away and later on when I found it I read it over & I realized how selfish I was to myself. It may seem cheesy but I learned to except the fact that this is how I look like & I have to get used to it. I learned to belive that I look decent & it made my confidence so much better. I love who I am because I'm awesome! :D Lol anyways, first all you need is to tell yourself that you're gorgoeus. The most beautiful people in the world have flaws & things they want to change. I don't think there is one person that loves every single thing about them & no one is perfect. People who turn around and look at you must think you're pretty. You need happiness to be beautiful & just be happy!! Life is too short to think about how to make your self look perfect. You have soo much more to live & expirience. You will mature more, keep growing, meet new people, everything. Some girls are probablly even jelous of you. Everyone is jelous of someone even though they don't want to admit. A lot of people have bad days where they think they're not worth anything but you are. Just remember: Happiness is the secret to all beauty. There is no beauty that is attractive without happiness.
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