Question Posted Thursday December 22 2005, 4:16 pm
We've decided not to drink at my friend's house. no worries about that. anyway, I need some opinions on co-ed sleepovers. my dad knows I won't do anything sexual (I showed him my purity ring) but he thinks it just "doesn't seem right. there will be 3 girls and 1 guy there (its not like 10 guys and 1 helpless girl) sooo what are some good things that will remove any doubt in his mind? please and thanks!
I went through the same thing. My dad did NOT have any trust in me what so ever. I sat him down and communicated with him. I told him, that I made plans for myself not to do anything sexual until a certain age. He said that communicating is all he needed. And he has much more trust in me now than he ever did. [ iloveyou3's advice column | Ask iloveyou3 A Question ]
haileyx3 answered Thursday December 22 2005, 8:51 pm: Well, there is always the possibility of lieng and saying its your friends couzin or something. If you dont want to lie you can say that you have no interest to him at all, and that he is just one of your really good friends. Tell him to trust you and that you swear nothing is gonna happen. [ haileyx3's advice column | Ask haileyx3 A Question ]
Teza answered Thursday December 22 2005, 5:08 pm: He has to be able to trust you though. Tell him that you will call him every 2 hours & tell him how it's going & that you're fine. It always works with my parents. I know it's not exactly him seeing what you are doing but I'm sure that guy is just a friend of yours & just keep tellings him you won't do anything stupid & to trust you. [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
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