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what happened to my best friend?
sorry this is sort of long!! i have been best friends with my friend sammie since about 7th grade. now i'm a junior & i'n not quite sure what to make of our friendship anymore. we are not in any of the same classes this year& we never see each other in the hallways either, so basically i don't see her in school. in the beggining of the year we still did stuff together, but she made a new friend, jane, who she does alot of things with. now i'm not against her making new friends (i have made new ones too) & jane is a very nice person, but i feel almost as if they are beocming best friends. it seems as though they are together alot, & even when there not i deffinetly feel as though sammie & i are nowhere near as close as we use to be. today i finally saw her in the hall, and all she said was hi (it was during her lunch period, so she could have stopped to chat). i'm not so sure if it's her i miss or what. i still like her & want to ocntinue to make an effort for our friendship so i invited her over for new years - last week she said she'd ask her parents, but neevr got back to me. i don't know where this friendship is going & i would just like an opinion on what you make of the situation or if you have any advice on what i should do to either make more of an effort or if you think i should let the friendship go. i really do like sammie, so it's not like she's mean & i need to get rid of her. thanks for your help!
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Ok Well It seems like Sammie is trying to let go of the friendsship...you guys have been very close since 7th grade and you guys are getting older and need to make new friends. You guys can still talk and stuff But I guarentee that you guys wont be as close as you use to be...Make new friends and spend time with all of them try not to spend so much time with just one person!! I hope I Helped!
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i know what you're going through. my friend just moved to a school close by, but its still hard to stay in contact, even at your own school. you have to come right out and ask her what the deal is. if you dont you will be guessing for who knows how much longer. ask her whats been up and how come you guys dont really hang out anymore. you will be able to tell by her reaction if she cares to hang out with you or not. if she just is like oh well ive been busy and gives no effort to chill, then maybe you should just let it go until maybe a time when she asks you to hang out, but dont let it get to you. if she seems like she does really care but has really been busy then tell her to make some time or plan ahead. im sure you guys can work it out but its not always easy. im sure if you talk with her it will make things easier because its all out in the open. i hope i helped!
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