Question Posted Tuesday December 13 2005, 10:01 pm
This question is for people in the older age groups of this site, or at least, the more experienced people.
What makes someone good in bed, specifically, a woman? I know a lot of it is personal preference, but I'm sure there are at least a few answers to this question other than "personal preference." Anyway, thanks.
Here it is:
Start with foreplay. By the way Massages often lead to sex. He'll let you know when enough is enough. Or we also love it when you girls just jump us. take the lead.
Kissing, you gotta kiss your man everywhere. Try it along all the way down and up his spine. Also, nipples. Make sure you pay some attention to those. Lick or kiss his groin and testicles before you suck him. (We love that) Once you start sucking him act like you have been starving for a week. Dont be rough though. I guess the word Im looking for is passionate. Act like you suck it for your pleasure not his. During sex try this. make him sit up and spread his legs a bit; also have him bend them about 45 degrees. face away from him. insert your legs (usually from the knee down between his where the 45 degrees are made on both legs. lock. sit back, bounce, rock, back and enjoy the ride.
hollisterxbabyyx33 answered Wednesday December 14 2005, 3:27 pm: moan. sounds funny but it rele works. like even if your not having a great time in bed (which is prolly the case with me sometimes) then just act like it`s the best sex in your life. be orgasmic ;] ♥ [ hollisterxbabyyx33's advice column | Ask hollisterxbabyyx33 A Question ]
Kizlode answered Wednesday December 14 2005, 4:32 am: You're right that it does come down to personal preference a lot, you need to take the time to find out exactly what turns on the man you're with. Don't rush into things, you will find that most men actually do like foreplay (even if a lot of them don't spend a lot of time on it themselves they like you to), oral sex, and stimulating them by kissing and fondling. Most mens nipples are just as sensative as womens so they can be licked and sucked.
I think the main thing is to remember that not all men are just into quick hard fast sex and then falling asleep (although we are almost all always made to look that way), most men like to take time over things and also allow the man to just do things to you sometimes, that can sometimes turn men on just as much.
It's difficult to get it all right all of the time (ask any man), all you can do is take your time and try to learn by your mistakes (that's what the rest of us do).
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