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ok.. well me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 years and im 16 hes 17 well weve been getting very close.. fingering, head, etc, but weve never had real sex... and im not sure if im ready to go there i mean by all this i bet i sound like a whore but.. well i dont want an answer like just stay true to yourself bc im not good at really what i want but i want to do it and i LOVE my boyfriend and i think were ready but im worried about getting pregant.. not as much dieases since were both virgin... AND my dads a pastor!!! so idk im really confused so if you can give me some advice that be great!!!!
btw i read your colum all the time its very good ♥
signed,
senually suffering♥
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i think you should figure out what you want. maybe go into bed a little early to lay there and think of what you think would be best for you. maybe include your boyfriend in your thought process. his reaction to your questioning the subject will also help you know if you're ready. b/c if he's like 'how could you question it don't you love me' then you guys need to talkkk .. but if he's supportive, then that's more points to you AND him being ready. that's really all i can say on whether you should or not, because like i'm not you lol. if you do end up having sex, just use condoms and birth control. for your dad being a pastor, i don't believe in that whole 'no pre-marital sex' thing because as long as you deffinitely love them - having a ring around your finger won't make a difference, but that's just my opinion. but you deffinitely have to love each other.
thanks ♥ =)
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