Question Posted Saturday December 10 2005, 11:00 pm
mmkay well, i moved over the summer and now im trying to get over my summer love.. but we like never went out.. i was just really and still am in love with him but as i said im trying to get over him.. ANYWAYYSSSS.. so theres this boy at my new schooooool his name is michael.. and i liek him alottt and he knew that.. and he flirts and everything but now he just asked out this scummy bitch belinda.. what should i do now? im like reallllly heartbroken =/
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? x3OSamanthaOx3 answered Wednesday December 14 2005, 10:07 pm: No matter how many guys you like your gunna get your heartbroken, it just happeneds and you can't control it. As long as you were 100% honest with michael then you have nothin to worry about. If he knew how you felt and still asked someone else out it just wasn't meant to be, and you can find better. Just look for guys who have a lot of the qualities you like, take things slow and don't rush things so much. When you rush you involve too many feelings and get your emotions too strong and too into something that you don't know for sure will even happen. About your guy over the summer.. long distance is almost impossible at our age to maintain, and I know how people have those summer flings but you gotta realize even though you think you love them you don't. You just lust them a lottt, but when you love someone you can't go after other people until your over it. If you don't give yourself time to get through it then it'll take longer and will just get harder. You don't have to do this but to get over someone faster its best to not talk to them until the feelings are gone, even though it seems impossible to talk to them as just friends it really isn't because its happened many timess. Hope I helped, Samantha Ox. [ x3OSamanthaOx3's advice column | Ask x3OSamanthaOx3 A Question ]
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