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Long Story...
I'm 15/M/TX & shes 13/F/FL
well... it starts out that I'm talking to my friend's cosin on AIM, & we where up talking all night... & so she fell in love with me, & I just liked her... but I knew it would never work... & so now, afew months later, where just friends, & she has a boyfriend now... but now, I'm acctuly in love with her... & I don't know what to do... & I was invited by my friend to come up there & stay a while (& I would meet his cosin), & I think I'm going to go... but I don't know what I would do, I would go out of state & put myself on the line for this girl I love, who has a boyfriend, & I have never met her, & I don't know what would happen... & her cosin seems to get really protective of her...
so, what I'm asking is... is it worth it? to go up there & risk so much? for a girl who is with someone else? but I love her?
just, what do you think?
thank you, & sorry its so confusing, theres more, but thats all you really need to know, its a very complicated situation
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I think you should go.
If you really want to know if you love her,you have to meet her in person to know for sure.
And if he is protective of her, just assure him you just want to get to know her.
Good luck!
~Long Lost Love
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Don't tell her how you feel ahead of time. Go for the visit and have a good time. You'll get to meet her in person (and this can be the deal breaker) and see for yourself. No matter how fabulous someone seems on IM or the phone there may not be the chemistry you need. If you are still crazy about her after meeting her in person, then go home and write her an honest message.... that you were scared before and that once you met her in person you knew you truly cared about her. If you keep your mouth shut until that point, it might just work!!! Girls like the chase or the 'bad boy' if you're all over her swearing undying love, she's gonna run.
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first don't tell your friend just incase they flip. 2nd want until you've been around her for a while untill you put yourself out there, maybe you only like the online her and not the live her. and wait until you can tell if she still has feelings for you. Good Luck!
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