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Question Posted Tuesday December 6 2005, 6:14 pm

IM SO FED UP WITH MYSELF. its like i cant look at the mirror anymore because i hate what a i see. i mean this is a phase for me.. but its just at the wrong time right now.. i dont know i feel so ugly and im not trying to get any attention i just feel really depressed and ugly. i dont know why?! and i feel like i dont deserve anyone and i dont want people to feel bad for me AT ALL. i mean i dont tell them this even its just something that is getting to me. i look at every girl and im like "wow shes so gorgeous" why couldnt i be different? and look like that. its just depressing..
is there any advice to help my self-confidence or anything!?
well thank you..


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Teza answered Tuesday December 6 2005, 9:23 pm:
I think that you might be going through depression. I also think that everyone goes through this stage once in their life, and it's okay at times, but you can't let it affect your life. Right now it might be hard for you to try and build up your self-esteem. I'm not going to tell you that you need to or anything, but you will realize this and how important it is for you. I bet that you are not even ugly. It makes me sad when people waste their time wanting to be perfect and how they ALWAYS seem to compare them selves with other people. Do you really want to spend your life like that?? I don't think so. You should be happy that you have a family, friends and you don't have to look a certain way for you to be happy. I know that you might not be looking for attention, but this is a situation you can fix. You should love yourself for who you are and the way you look. I'm sure that every girl has times where they feel like they are the ugly duckling and that all the other girls around them are gorgeous and they start to feel bad. Once it happens once, they start to always think like that. It's very low. If you feel ugly, do something nice for yourself. Do your hair different, wear make up, eat healthy and exercise. Have fun because life is too short to waste and be upset over being like everyone else.

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