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Hello again
I'm the person who asked a question (it was a while ago) about my friend's parents getting a divorce, and how my friend hasn't been talking to me. Here's the link to my old question: [Link](Mouse over link to see full location)
I told her that I'd always be here for her and stuff like that on AIM. I also told her that I was worried that we weren't talking, and she said it was because she was always busy with school and sports and stuff. That's the last time I talked to her, and I haven't since. I'm online all the time, and she's online sometimes too. She never tries talking to me, ever. I also checked her myspace and her friends' myspaces, and she seems to be talking to her other friends just fine (I don't have a myspace, if that means anything). I've been thinking that we are growing apart for months, even before I heard the news.
She's been losing weight, too, if that means anything. She's been worrying about what she eats and she won't eat anything that is unhealthy. No, I don't mean just fried foods or chocolate (or other candy), even stuff that has value, like cheese! I don't know if that might have contributed to anything, but it might have. I know I didn't mention that at first, but I think that might have something to do with it all.
My question is, why do you think that she not talking to me at all? Thanks!
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I know that wehn i have stress and it is buildin more than i can handle i dont anything. I dont have time to do it. I dont think that she is not talking to you because it is you personally it is just that stress is building up to fast for her. I am am in college an di have barely any time to tie my shoes. The only people i have to time to hang out is the people i work for. Maybe when she has free time you shoulkd go out together you know once in a awile ask her to go to the movies or something nice where you can enjoy yourselves. I know you want her to start the conversation but for some people just because of their stubborness they wont start the conversation. The best thing is to never give up if you do then there was no point in trying. If you continue to try and never give up your work will be payed off to your advantage. When i was in high school i was very busy it is not that i didnt want to talk to my friends or hang out with them it is was i was so busy that i didnt even have time to do anything. i was barely seeing my family and my dad hardly ever saw me because he didnt want to. The point is she is no avoiding you on purpose. Dont ever blame yourself and keep trying you can do it.
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