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My best guy friend walked out on me


Question Posted Tuesday November 29 2005, 3:52 pm

Heres my proble m Ihope you can help,so to make a long story short i fell for my best guy friend and he lead me on for like 6 months im crazy about him it got to the point where he has become me security blanket. i've been going through a really tough time in my life right now and hes been there for me i'd tell him i loved him and hed say i love too but he wouldnt date me and i asked if him it was okay that im so dependant on him, and he told me yes its fine im here for you etc. and just recently out of the blue he was like you call me too much, I cant be your security balnket anymore plus he met someone and basically he was like here ill give you some space get over me and like now we dont really talk hes ina erlationship with this new girl of his , im so hurt cause he jsut liek left and he promise he'd always be there for me and he promised me alot of things but he did lead me ona nd now hes basically doesnt want anything to do with me and he told me left like he did because he got sick of being my friend and i know that, thats not really the main reason why its because of this new girl and i dont know im still in love with hima nd hes my best guy friend and im so confused and hes said oh im sorry a million itmes but i jsut cant forgive him a part of me wants to hate him so much but i jsut cant because i love him and he was the first guy ive ever fallen for and ive cried so much overhim and i jsut cant let go of him and accpet that he did what he did out of all the people i truey care about he walked out me just like my parents did, How can I get over him i need to so bad all he does is hurt me

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advice~gurl answered Wednesday December 7 2005, 1:51 am:
Yes, you do need to get over him. There is a saying that goes something like "no boy is worth your tears and the one that is won't make you cry".

I'm sure you have other friends, friends that are girls and you can talk to. It won't be the same as him but this is something you need a girls shoulder to cry on about. He led you on and you fell for him. Any girl thats vulnerable as you were while you were talking to him would have fallen for him. Don't hate him, don't hate yourself just learn from this.

Getting over him is something you have to do on your own. It won't be easy but you can do it.
Spend less time with him, do other things. Try new hobbies, go out with other friends. Have fun. You'll probably think about him alot but in time other guys will come along.

You have hard times but you can make it. Know that and keep your head held high.

AG

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