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Hey! My question is about my friend. See she is a very pretty grl n sumtimes she acts a little "sluty". She doesnt try to n she isn't a slut but she acts that way. She hangs out with this girl named Sam. She is rly nice but i feel she is a baad influence to my friend. Sam can b a little "sluty" sumimes to. && when sams mom isnt home she has lyk little partys n bois go to her house n stuff (theres no drinking&& Sam is lyk 14;my friend is 13 my age).See I am worried that some guy will tell my friend stuff lyk he luvs her n all this stuff or she will just be in the spur of the moment n have sex with him. I am just so worried that she will get pregnant or get a bad rep.. I do not lyk how she hangs uot w/ Sam at sams house either. I dnt no how to tell her this because i cant tell her to not hang w/ Sam. And it seems watever i say i am alwayz wrong even if i am right n my friend thinks its ok to have sex wen you r 13 n dnt have real feelings for the person. I just dnt want her to make a mistake is there nehitng you can think to help me? Thanx ((Emily))
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wow this totally sounds like me and how my friend were a bit.You so deffinately TELL HER! call her on the phone and say "we need to have a serious talk, can you please meet me somewhere?" At first she might not listen to you or think your right, but point out all the things you think are bad qualitys in sam to your friend to get her thinking twice about her,you dont want to just say i dont like what sams does you need to back that up with some reasons.Tal to your mom about it that helps too and maybe your mom can talk to her mom about the things that are going on.Sex at 13 is DEFFINATELY TOO YOUNG to have sex believe me,your right a 13 year old is not old enough to handle the responsiblitys of having sex.In the long run,your friend will hopefully understand and know that you really care about her,and if she dosent then maybe you should try and find somone else to hang out with,one whos actually worth a friendship and cares about you. GOOD LUCK! tell me how things wotk our for you!
♥ danielle
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