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Question Posted Friday November 25 2005, 6:35 pm

I used to like this girl in my math class and she's always had a big crush on me. I'd always be nice to her and let her borrow things when she asked, perhaps too much. I drove her home a few times from school and friend even advised me to ask her out, but she also likes my best friend and only showed more interest in me when she got mad at him and she hates him now, but now she apparantly likes some stupid mexican named Juan at her friends work, she asked me if I'd drive her to her friend work and I said "sure" at first, then she was like "do you even know why??" then I got really mad. This was like at the end of class, now I'm completely giving up on her, I'm not giving her a chance and I'm going to be bitter/mean/not talk to her for a while. If she can't decide what she wants I'm not going to put up with it.

Is this a good thing to do?


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cheddar answered Saturday November 26 2005, 6:39 pm:
it sounds like this girl is just using you, and keeping you around for a backup. maybe if you show her that you really aren't willing to stick around while she treats you like shit, she'll have a reality check. don't be bitter, because being bitter makes you seem extremely jealous. just try to avoid giving her rides, letting her borrow things, etc. maybe if she sees that you have lost your respect for her, she'll grow the fuck up and stop playing with your head.

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