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found out guy I like is really crude and tactless.
This guy that I used to sort of have a crush on lately has been showing some undesirable qualities. Well me and my friend went to have lunch at his cafe that he's a chef and owner of. We were sitting down having our lunch and then he started talking really loudly about his friend that owns a porn shop. Then he told us that his friend had caught a guy stealing a pussy in a box and that he tackled him. Then he empasized once again that is was a PUSSY IN A BOX, and laughed.
Now remember, me and my friend were in the middle of eating our lunch when he started talking about this. We never said anything to him, but after we left I told her I thought what he did was in bad taste and she agreed with me.
I'm sort of losing interest in this guy now. I think what he told us was something he should have said outside of his business, and maybe he should have told his guy friends instead of two woman. Were no prudes but really there is a time and place.
Does anyone else think what he did was uncalled for?
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Yes, I think you were perfectly justified in feeling uncomfortable about it. People go a bit too far sometimes with sexual innuendos. I find them humorous at times, but as you said, there IS a time and a place. Also, it's never a good idea to crack jokes like that around people who you're not particularly close with.
Perhaps though he was acting silly to impress you. Some guys can act really immature when girls are around. He might have been really nervous and thus cracking stupid jokes to cover his nervousness up. You never know what people's motives are. However, I guess this isn't an excuse for his behavior, though, and it obviously made you lose respect for him. Don't bother with him. There's plenty of guys out there who can act like gentlemen and be polite around girls.
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It seems to me like you got a little glimpse of what this guy is like when he's with his friends/not trying to impress someone. If you're offended by his being crass I'd assume you're going to find more discoveries along this line in the future.
There are a million guys out there. No reason to settle for anything less than desirable. Maybe you can find someone who speaks the language of common courtesy and the art of being polite.
Good Luck!
Anne Nonimous
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I talk openly with strangers about my strange fetish for women's toe nail clippings, so not really.
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