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HELP ME!!!


Question Posted Monday November 21 2005, 8:10 pm

ok so my mom has been in alot of trouble with the law over drugs. We always usta talk and now something happened and now she is not calling me anymore. I try to call her but no one ever answers and now I starting to get worried. I also feel like I have done something wrong to may make her not wanna call me.It herts me and I wanna know why?? Please help my I wanna know!!
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~BeautyBaby800~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~


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Daria006 answered Wednesday November 23 2005, 12:30 pm:
If you know where she is, try writing her a letter. Maybe she's in too deep right now and is worried hearing about it might cause you to worry. If I were you I would just, even though this will be extremely hard, let her call you. She might just need a break from other people to get over the hard time. Hang in there chickie. I wish you all the luck! Hope I could help.

-Daria

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jealousyxo answered Tuesday November 22 2005, 7:08 pm:
i am soo sorry.Dont ever say you did something wrong because you didnt! your mom just had some trouble with whatever shes going through.Maybe shes stressed out,bad day,or life just isnt working out right now.You should get your mother into a rehab clinic if she isnt already.ASk your dad or whoever you live with and ask if you can visit her maybe once a week or soemthing like that.It sure is tough on the kids who are being affected by what their parents do.Try to talk to a school consuloer about whats going on or talk to a therapist.I hope everything works out for you! good luck! and i hope your mom gets better!
remember, she still loves you no matter what. ; )




hope i could help! <3


&hearts; danielle

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karenR answered Monday November 21 2005, 11:47 pm:
Just try to remember that she isn't herself.

Drugs make people lose track of time among other things. They also make people paranoid and forgetful. Any number of things like that.

I am sure your mother loves you. She just happens to have a problem that you have no control over.

So don't take anything she says or doesn't do personally. You know in your heart it wouldn't be that way if she wasn't on drugs.

I hope for your sake as well as hers that she will one day get her life back on track. She has to want to do that for herself though.

In the meantime, check you local phone book for a support group of teen with a parent who is a drug addict. They can help you cope with what you are going through. Many will have the same problems. It would be nice for you to have someone to talk to who can really relate to what you are going through. Ask your dad about it, I am sure he or another family member would help you find a group to join.

Good luck :)

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