Question Posted Saturday November 19 2005, 2:49 pm
im 14f there is this guy i like i have know since i was a baby but we never really talked but now i talk to him like everyday online but when ever i see him in person he is like shy or something to talk iuno if thats true or wateva because a couple people think that he likes me?? i really like him what should i do to get him to talk to me in person or to do something to try to move this faster?
hco_babe answered Saturday November 19 2005, 4:09 pm: he seems really shy if he won't even talk to you unless it's online. he's probably shy and wants YOU to approach him first. (guys really like that) so just be like "hey (name) what's goin on?" just start up simple convos, say hi whenever you see him, and he'll start doing the same back. [ hco_babe's advice column | Ask hco_babe A Question ]
Chicken_flavored_eggs answered Saturday November 19 2005, 4:05 pm: Why should it have to move fast? What is wrong with taking time and enjoying getting to know someone? If anything worth while is going to come out of a relationship with him, you should be able to take your time in getting him to your level. He is shy, right? If you push him, you may scare him off. You can't force feelings on others (even though many try) When you talk to him keep it light. Try talking about something you know he likes to get him to open up (since you have known him your whole life, I would assume you know things about him) It may take a while for him to get up the nerve, but if you move slow and he does like you, it will be worth the patience. [ Chicken_flavored_eggs's advice column | Ask Chicken_flavored_eggs A Question ]
kitkatkate answered Saturday November 19 2005, 3:18 pm: hello! ok well alot of girls get into this kind of situation. just talk to him in person. it is so easy to talk to someone you like online but you cant live through all your love relationships over the internet so you just need to take the next step. talk! what do you talk to him about online? well whatever it is talk to him about it in person too. its not that hard. it may seem like it but once you get to talking you wont stop and he will begin to realize your not nervous so why should he be. hope i helped! much love<3kate [ kitkatkate's advice column | Ask kitkatkate A Question ]
Teza answered Saturday November 19 2005, 3:15 pm: It is always soo much easier to talk to someone you like eather online or on the phone. If he is shy to talk to you in person then he might like you. That's how a lot of people are. If you want to talk to him, just start a conversation first. Ask questions and he will answer and he'll get more comfrable talking to you. Just say heyy, what's up. Invite him to go somewhere with you and your friends and his friends. Just talk more and he will get used to everything. [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
malibubarbiie111 answered Saturday November 19 2005, 2:52 pm: it`s always easier to talk to the person you like online.* so he prolly does like you. just talk to him in person. like ask him questions && stuff. smile a lot && flirt.-- he`ll get the idea. and stop being so shy [ malibubarbiie111's advice column | Ask malibubarbiie111 A Question ]
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