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not sure
Hey,
Actually I have two problems...1) I still like my ex-boyfriend and Im not sure if he likes me. Some of my freinds say he does, and I dont want to ask him because I might get hurt and then he might not want to hang out anymore. But I dont want to loose my chance. What should i do?
2) Whever Im around the guy I like, my friend feels left out. And I dont like them to feel that way. But he really doesnt like him that much, so I cant get them to hang out. What should i do?
thanks so much
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hey! ok well for question 1:
Hmmmm...well this is kinda hard but all girls struggle with it. does the guy like you? what you could do is maybe ask one of HIS friends if he still likes you, one that you can ask and trust not to spill to your ex. or if you dont want to do that, you could always just be hanging out with him sometime and ask him casually so who do you like these days?? ask the question friendly like and also just b/c you were wondering. it sounds like you and your ex are still friends, so it might not make him feel like omg why did SHE ask me that. if it is you he might not tell you that, but by facial expressions, you should be able to tell.
question 2:
well, maybe when your hanging with your crush and your friend is there, also make sure that one or two of your other friends are there to keep your friend company. this will make him feel not as left out, b/c there will be other people to hang with, not just the three of you. this might also, as funny as it may seem, make him more comfortable talking to your crush. having other friends around might make him feel more confident about what he is doing.
**hope i helped and thanx for asking! feel free to ask me other things if you need to!!**
xoxo helpachick
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