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Friendship Problems
Here is my problem...and i hope this doesn't sound too immature but, my best friend is friends with this girl who always is ditching her for other people. then my best friend comes and complains to me that she is annoyed... but she just keeps following and doing whatever this other girl asks her too. what my best friend doesn't realize is that she is doing to me what this girl is doing to her. ditching me for someone else. it is so frustrating because i have tried talking to her about this but she always gets angry. what should i do to make her see clearly what is going on?
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hmm... this is a hard one.. well lets see, if you've already tried talking to her about this, then there isnt many other things you can do. How have you been trying to talk to her? you have to make sure your going about it the right way, otherwise she will just get angry like you said. You have to talk to her in a certain way.. and really tell her how you feel about it... otherwise, you need to surround yourself with other people. im sure theres plenty of friends you can hang out with.. dont just depend on one person to always be there for you to hang out, because eventually that person will leave and then who will you have? Obviously, if this friend is ditching you, then she's not the best person to be hanging around. try talking to her some more, and in the mean time, make some new friends ... only two things can happen if you do so .. she will either realize what shes doing is wrong, or you will move on and make REAL friends. i hope i helped.. keep asking questions!
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