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my ex-man said that he cant be my friend cuz his girl dont like me but he knew me first, and he had the nerve to cheat on me with her so does it sound like she needs to be the one hatin me. but anyway she called my phone yeling and cussin and tellin me not to call her man when obviously her man didn't have a problem with it, but he cant be friend causeshe dont like me , i really want to be his friend i feel like it'll help me to get over him faster.i still care for him a little so what should i do.
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You want to be friends with a guy who cheated on you? I think you know what you need to do. Move on and get this cheater out of your life. That girlfriend of his will just have to keep getting cheated on until she gets it. Don't stop talking to him because his girlfriend doesn't want you to, stop because he cheated on you and disrespected you! Being his friend won't ease the pain of getting over him, it actually makes things worse. The more you hang out with someone you like, the more you are going to fall for them. You have to make space and move on, besides, does he really deserve to have you as a friend? I think not.
-TheTeenGirl
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honestly i think she shouldn't be hating on you cause your ex is free to choose who he wants as his friend . if i were you i wouldn't care about what she thinks . try talking to her and make it clear to her that you just look for friendship in him.
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She is very insecure about her relationship with him. She sees you as a threat, and hey, you might be if you still like each other!
The thing is he cheated on you. It was with her. She knows damn well he is capable of cheating because he did it with her when you were dating him. She doesn't trust him.
I would steer clear of calling when you know hes with her. Other than that I see no reason you can't be friends with him. Don't try to cause a problem or anything, hang up on her if she calls you again. He isn't saying anything to you about it so he must not mind your calling him.
You do want to make sure he isn't using you to play games with her. That's just not nice to do.
I don't think their relationship is going to last long though if you want that info. She doesn't trust him. :)
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