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Not enough time
My boyfriend and i really like each other a lot. I play varsity basketball for my school and i don't have a lot of free time plus i miss a lot of school. I really want to spend time with my guy. What should I do so that we can spen more time with him and he doesn't feel left out of my life?
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just try to make time for him. i know its hard between school, sports, and other stuff, but you've gotta find the time. you dont have that much stuff to do. you have to have some time where you dont have anything to do. he's your boyfriend, hes gotta have some time somewhere in your week. good luck with that...<3
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I don't see how playing basketball would have him feel left out of your life. He does have your love, doesn't he? I do know where you are comming from. I'm going to guess that you feel like you are not devoting enough time to your boyfriend, which in turn might make him feel upset, or not as important? Well let me say this: it takes less than 5 minutes to tell or listen to a joke to get a good laugh; it takes less than 15 minutes to hear about his day, and tell him about yours; it takes less than 20 minutes to write him a poem to remind him of how much he is to you; and it only takes less than 5 seconds to say 'I love you'. My point? Even with the smallest portions of time, you can both let each other know that each of you is very important to the other, reguardless of the limited time you get to spend. I always say any time is better than none, right? If he ever does feel left out for some reason, spend more time with him, but it might cost you. I do not suggest you cut on your homework or studying time [if you have any to do], maybe just sleep to talk on the phone or cut down on time hanging out with other times to spend it with him. Really, you don't have to do big things, just small things with a lot of love =). I hope that helped and good luck.
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What you need to do is choose. I know it's hard but you have to choose between What you love, and the one you love. Basketball or yo man. It's not like your never going to get to play basket ball again
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Well one thing is definitely have him come to your games! He'll be there to watch and support you, and you can talk to him afterward. (= Also, try to fit time in like once a week, regardless of other things. Like pick Friday for example, and on that day nomatter what else is going on, you guys get together for a couple hours & go to a movie or just hang out. That way, even if you don't see him OFTEN during the week, you'll know you have that one bit of time. Good luck!!
♥ Melissa
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