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friends or boyfriend?
My girls & I are very close - the 5 of us have been best friends since like, 2nd grade and now we're in 9th. I'm the only one of my friends that has ever had like , a relationship lasting more than a week. Anyways, the four of them have their fun times - they all hung out while I went to homecoming - and they STILL talk about how much fun it was. For Halloween, I was supposed to go with two of them, and the other two were going together - then I realized I had a test the next day, so about a week before Halloween I decided I should stay home and study, and Ryan assumed I was going with him and the kids in his neighborhood that we're friends with. So, I just decided to go with him, and only go for about an hour and a half so I'd still have time to study. They STILL always talk about that, too! They all complain that he's all I talk abuot, when really he's not, and that I spend too much time with him, when I hardly ever hang out with him! After one of my classes, my friends & I have the next period together so we'd meet up and walk together, and now that we're going out, I stop and wait for 2 seconds (literally) for Ryan, and they get mad & say I "ditch them." Meanwhile, every morning, the 5 of us aretogether for about 15 minutes, and I don't even see him, and at the end of the day, we're always together too! I know it's always best friends before boyfriends, but they don't understand that I have a boyfriend now and that I wanna spend some time with him too! What do I do, no one understands me, and they all seem to be discluding me lately. I was thinking about breaking up with him, but I like him so much & I know he feels the same way.
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I understand how you feel though. Sometimes even though you have best friends, they don't always understand exactly what you are trying to proove to them. The only thing and the best thing to do is actaully talk to them. Tell them exactly what you just said to me. Talk to them very calmly and explain to them everything. I know that friends always come before guys, but don't break up with him. It's not worth it. Just because your friends don't really understand this right now, you might regret it. When you guys are all together, talk to them and explain exactly what's going on. Say everything that is on your mind.
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