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I really need your opinion on this
I have this boyfriend and we've been in a relationship for a year and I'm currently six months pregnant. The problem is that I'm starting to get kind of tired of his ways and his situation. He have this bestfriend, and recently he and his girlfriend is always over my boyfriend house and that is starting to get on my nerves because I really don't like them. It's times that I might want to go somewhere and my boyfriend acts like he don't want to take me but when one of his friends asks, it seems like he always could find a way to take them to where they got to go. I just don't feel comfortable at his house anymore because his best friend and his girlfriend is always there. I feel like I can't even spend time with him anymore because I don't want to be around them. He always want me to come over but he knows how I feel about them being there and he never say anything about it. Another thing is that he always dis me to play the game. He is a grown ass man and if he always have to hang up the phone with me to play a game then he needs to grow up cause I barely talk to him. A part of me is getting kind of tired of this, but it's hard because I'm pregnant with his child. PLEASE TELL ME WHAT I SHOULD DO!!!!!!!
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first of all, if you're not happy with him don't stay with him only because of the child. i admire you wanting to set up a mom, dad, kid environment, but no one will benefit from it if you aren't happy.
your other option could be to try talking to his friend and the girlfriend. why don't you like them? is it something they can change? if so, try talking to them.
above all, choose what is best for YOU... you are pregnant so you need to take care of yourself and make yourself happy. many women make it being a single mom, and i'm sure you can find someone else to love you down the road
good luck!!
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Talk to him. Relationships are mainly based on communication. If this situation is affecting you this badly, you must tell him and get his input on it. Being pregnant puts stress on you and the last thing you need is this, tell him that.
Best of luck with talking to him and the pregnancy!
x Steph x
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sweetie just because you are pregnant with his child doesnt make you his hostage. you can tell him about how you feel again and tell him to make the proper changes and if he doesnt you will be on your merry wway. but dont just threaten him ... do it. i am a single mom and i am ok you will be too. trust me never stay with a man just because of the kid there is such a thing as child support. dont put up with him he isnt respecting your feelings. good luk hun keep me posted on how things work out and relax you need to stay mentally healthy for that baby
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