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What is a girl to do?
ok this past weekend my cousin which is like a sister to me i mean everyone thinks we're twins actually came and stayed with me over the weekend and Friday my other cousin come over which isn't from where i am and i hadnt seen her in forever...well lets call the one everyone thinks is my twin Kaci and lets call the one i havent seen in awhile Michelle well Michelle knows the guy that Kaci goes with and she has known him for a loong time and she's real good friends with his sister well...she told me some stuff that shouldnt have been said and then she told me i needed to have a talk with Kaci and tell her to make sure it's the right thing before she slept with him or anything and for me to tell her how it messes with your life and your reputation well without thinking i told Kaci and Kaci really got mad at me and we were just giving her some advice and trying to save her from ruining her life...which i guess was wrong...and she went back and told her boyfriend that we was trying to break them up and said he had all kinds of diseases and stuff and that we said if she slept with him then she would get those diseases and mess her life up...which isnt the truth and me and her boyfriend was friends he helped me out all the time and now he doesnt want anything to do with me and doesnt want her to come back to my house...I dont know what i should do anymore because she lied on the both of us and we dont really appreciate that because we dont want them breaking up we're the ones that hooked them up in the first place you know..what do we need to do?
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Well i think you, michelle, and kaci have a good thing going..and if you and michelle are trying to help kacis relationship with her boyfriend and she takes everything the wrong way,then shes not a true friend.. Cuz friends are soppose to help each other not hurt. Then maybe you should just let her get hurt and live out the pain, then shell go back to you and michelle and shell know what she did wrong and that she should trust u if shes a reall friends!!!!
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i think you might need to try to talk to her again and convince her that you where only trying to help and that you didnt want her to get mad at yo and say how much she means to you. Say that you dont want her to be mad at her anymore. It sounds easier than it seems lol. But i hope i helped and im sorry if i didnt!!!
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hey. well it really showed how caring you 2 were for warning your cousin about those things, but maybe you should've brought up the subject of if she was even thinking about it first. but anyways just tell her you were just trying to be a good friend&cousin. she'll have to understand that and if she doesnt...she still listened and has heard it, so maybe -even if she doesnt want you to think that she will- maybe she will think of the stuff you told her and think twice and be more careful if a situtation w/ her b/f ever comes up.
xoxohelpachick
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