well i went on line and he was on...we were talking and it got out of control--he told me he couldnt see us being together forever--he saw us getting married and divorced in 5 yrs. i signed off i couldnt do it no more.. so itexted him and said i need him to come here and tell me..i cant do it anymore..and he said dont do thid not tonight i said i have to hear it so he said what? you wanna hear that i am not coming home? well im not.Do i care for you? i do. Do i see us being in a relationship together,i dont think so. I said no i need it to be real i need to do this for myself i need to hear it to my face and he said fine if that will make it real he will do it to my face. I am destryoed right now. He said he doesnt see us being any more than friends..i cannot be his friend..i cant put myself in that position i love him too much and i cant do this anymore...oh god! help me i am falling apart..its gonna be real now and i have to face it what am i going to do --please save me my life is just aboutto crash again and i cant do this alone..what do i do HELP PLEASE HELP
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? TrueAdviceDiva answered Monday November 7 2005, 9:21 pm: Oh No....I wish I had your number...I would've known sooner what ws going on. It is after 9 p.m. here and being that I don't know where you are, I don;t know if I got this in time. Why do you think you need to hear it in person?? He has been saying it to you in no uncertain terms before. Seeing him in person is only going to leave a lasting image of his face whenhe dropped the bomb on you. What next?? SEVERE THE TIES..ALL OF THEM..INCLUDING THE CELLPHONE...Please let him go. Let's start working on you now. I feel for you and wish it didn't have to come to this. Did he tell you why he thought you would be divorced in 5 years?? Do you think you are strong enough to do this face to face?? I see that you love him more than you love yourself and we need to change that. Where are your kids?? [ TrueAdviceDiva's advice column | Ask TrueAdviceDiva A Question ]
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