ok well i like this guy, lets call him "Jamie". And then my other friend "Emilia" likes him too. and well she liked him first and never said 2 words to him (the only time he talked to her was when i told him to (this was when i didn't like him)). it was just a crush, but then i got to know him and now i like him but i don't want to tell "emilia" because im afraid she'll get mad at me or think that i only like him because she does, which is of course crazy. anyway some of my friends "Libby,richard, marie, elizabeth and katy" are starting to guess that i like him and yesterday they figured out that i like him and now im afraid that they will say something at school and "emilia" will over hear it. i also found out from "richard" that "Jamie" is going to ask out "Tasha" when he gets his braces off. which now i can't stand her. my friend "Richard" told me not to get jelous and stuff. and to make things worse, "elizabeth" thinks that "richard" likes me.
So should i tell "emilia" that i like "jamie" or should i just stop likeing him because he likes "tasha"?
And... if "richard" likes me, how can i tell him i dont like him?
So confused,
"Kylie"
Wow. That is a toughie, and all the names are very confusing. Haha. Anyway, let's deal with one problem at a time. If you and Emila both like the same guy, and you are POSITIVE that she really does like him, and she liked him first, then you are aloud to go out with him. Like you said, she barely ever talks to him. Ask Jamie if he is going to ask Tasha out, and find out if it is true. If he says no then ask him out right there because it would be a good moment, when you guys are already talking about girlfriends/boyfriends. If Richard likes you, and you ask out Jamie before Richard asks you, then when Richard asks you, you can just say Sorry, but I'm already going out with Jamie.
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