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Confused
I'm in a group of friends...like 4 of us but now theres 5...appearently one of the guys wanted to hang out with us. He liked me but I told him that we're just friends so we're cool and everything but then he asked out one of my friends because he "needed" a person in his life. I don't have a problem with that either until now I don't get to see my friend as often and I swear he's taking her away from because according to him his list of people hating him is growing by the day...What can I do?
Second my friend that is dating him is totally different now..I swear she's being like me. I'm a more dramatic person and I would sqeel a lot if something bothered me...well she's been like that lately and I'm not comfortable with it..How do I deal?
This whole situlation is just making me mad and I dont know what to do...I feel like ever since my friend has been dating her bf no one is the group really cares for me anymore. Thanks for your help.
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well first and foremost i think you should confront ur friend about this i kno its really hard to tell it straght to their face so you can write a note or aim her tonight or tommorow or write the note over the weekend and put a lot of thought into it! if she has changed it`s most likely for this guy and if she changed into you its because the guy flirts with you and she notices and wants the attention to be all on her!!!!!!!
dont let this bother you tons! ok hun? well try out these things and idk im just starting out so dont flip out if i gave you really bad advice!
i hope i did help
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The only way you can get an idea of what's going on is to ask her and talk to her about this. Tell her that you don't mean to offend her, but you feel like this guy is hogging her to get to you and that you really miss her. Besides, let me tell you that this little thing between your friend and him may not last for so long because he said that he just needs someone in his life, he didn't actually say that he wanted to be with her. Honestly, I'd probably leave it alone until she notices what hes really doing to her. Try to have a girls night out with her and invite her to stay over for you and her only and just tell her that you miss her very much. I don't think it will work out if you start telling her that shes not with you enough and that hes hogging her, because lets face it, any girl will get upset if their friend talks about their boyfriend hogging them or any of that. Your friend will get it soon, don't worry too much, and just keep trying and stay strong.
-TheTeenGirl
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