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Hey there! Currently I'm friends with this guy named "Rainbow", and just recently, I'm beginning to have feelings for him. He was like really nice and we could talk-story, and be comfortable around each other. Everytime during passing from class to class, we would say "hi" to each other, then break into conversation. But the weirdest thing is that now, we no longer say "hi" to each other, nor talk story. It's like we've never met, and all of this changed over the course of one week. I honestly feel that my feelings are becoming really evident, and it's making everything soo awkward between us. But what I am confused about is this: why is he acting weird around me too? i've always recieved mixed signals, but what else can i do to not make the situation more weird for us, but to restore it back to normal?
i am 15/f, and he is 16/m.
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Talk to him, say hello first. Confront him about your feelings maybe he feels weird around you and embarrased because he has a crush on you but dont say this to him he will admit it in his own time. If you like him make him feel manly and warm by being friendly to him.
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I think that he feels the same way and he is afraid that if you guys become more than friends then you will lose the friendship you had. So a way for him to deal with this is to avoid conversation and acting weird. The best thing is to write him a note or even call him and ask him why he is being so weird. I bet it is b/c he has feelings for you to he just doesnt know how to tell you.
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Hi There,
The best way for you to tell him is to simply be honest. We can't help the way we feel. Find a time when you can be alone with him. It may be best to do this face to face. Sit down and just tell him that you're beginning to like
him. Chances are, he may feel the same way about you.
However, before you break the news to him, you might want to make sure that he'll be ready to accept it. How long have you been friends? Sometimes, if you tell him a little too soon, he may get scared and back down. Make sure you've got a secure friendship in place before you tell
him. Most of all, you must feel comfortable telling him about your feelings toward him. If you don't feel comfortable doing it, then it may be better to wait a while.
When you do tell him, like I mentioned above, just be honest about your feelings. Sit down with him and let him now how you feel. Chances are, he may be feeling the same way about you. Isincerely hope that everything will turn out for the best.
Good luck!
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