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im so insecure.. i really wanna change.. what i dont know.. is how to be confident. i really wanna be cause emotionally ill be so much better off and happier. i dont know how to look at me the way other people do. my boyfriend likes confident and im the total opposite.. i need to learn how to be..any suggestions.. at all..please
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i read in a magazine to look at yourself in the mirror every morning, and find one good thing you like about yourself (probably something that a lot of people ccompliment you about). wear something that emphasizes that area, and when people compliment you, don't say you disagree, just say "thanks" and smile. you need to tell yourself that you are pretty and smart and people wish they could be ;like you. i know from personal experience, most people feel like they're not as good as the next person, having no idea that that person thinks they're not as good as the first person. so as long as you don't convey that you think you're not as good as someone, they will think you are confident. good luck!
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I know exactly how you feel. The best thing is not to look at yourself just be happy. A good way to make yourself is to find a hobby that you have an interest in. Like i play musical instruments. I focus on this so much that i dont even think about my image or personality. If you find something that you love to do and you are good at it you will build self-confidence. To everyone is beautiful and not fat no matter what they look like. Maybe if you wear makeup and try doing something nice with your hair. When i put on makeup it makes me feel like i am beautiful even though i dont think. The cover up makes me feel like no one knows what i really look like. Its a security thing. Take one day at a time and eventually you wont care anymore.
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