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how to give up friends
well yeah so this stared like a really long time ago so yeah well i had 3 best friends, one since i was 5, one since i was 7, and one since i was 6.W were really close and would do everything togther.like i mean everything. we would walk home from school and have a sleep over every friday and i would always be over to there houses because i dont live on the same sreet as them. so anyway in the middle of the summer, 2 out of 3 of my friends slept over and soone friend already had her priod and so that night the other 1 did to.so anyway this one girl at school that we used to hate well she started being nice to us.and so we made plans with her to go to lunch and then a near by store. well it turned out one of my friends (the girl who just got her priod) couldent go so it was just me and my other friend. so the night of the sleep over we were planing on telling the girl we were going to lunch with and we were going say that they got there priods and brag about it. so at the place me and my friend were telling her that they got there priods. so after that, that girl starteed geting nicer and nicer to just one of us and so the new girl wanted to be in are group.(we well call her the new girl)(we well call the girl that the new girl is being nice to betty)(we well call the girl who was out to lunch with me pickel)(and we well call the girl who was on vaca tall)so anyway yeah so the new girl wanted to be in the group with us. but we (me, tall, and pickel).but betty did because new girl was being nice to her.so Betty was mad at us.about 3 weeks later we became friends with betty agin but we stell dident want her in the group. well thenBetty found out that me and pickel told new girl about her getting her priod. and betty forgot that she told us to brag to new girl about it. so now she was mad at me and pickel. well then she forgave pickel and was stell mad at me and i dont no y. so whatever about 3 weeks later it was her b day and she was being nice to me agin. then new girl got pickel to notg like me any more. to make a long store short none of my friends even talk to me any more and on halloween 10 min befor i was all ready and about to go to there house 4 trick or treating they told me that i wasent going trick or treading with them any more. theve made me cry so many times about this mass and im starting to get over them but its really hard because i've been friends with them for so long and i dont want to through that all away. please answer this ill always rat 5 so yeah and dont not read this just cuz its long!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! HELP ME!!!!
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i had the same problem when i was in middle school. my best friends, who i had been best friends with since like kindergarten, one by one decided to not like me anymore, and to this day i have no idea why. i tried for about a year to makethem like me again, but it didn't work. finally, i moved on and made new friends. i'm in college now, and one of the original friends is just starting to talk to me again, she apologized for how she acted so many years back, and she says she wants to be my friend again. i'd say don't grovel at their feet, if they invite you out, go out with them, if not, find some new friends. best of luck!
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Okay, I strongly recomend making your question a LOT less confusing by not using those made up names and using better grammar. It really helps in getting advice! I'm not trying to be mean at all. It's a serious suggestion. Make your question less confusing, and if you want, send it to me.
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wow...well this is really complicated. but i had a BFF who ditched me for this really bratty girl to. the whole grade knew how mad we were at eachother and it lasted for such a long time, and seriously i was pretty sure the two of us would never hardly talk again. but then after a while i just got so tired of being mad and crying about it and everything. so i think you should do what i did. just try to be totally over it around them. act toward them like you would anyone else, and dont be mean or act mad. dont act like their best friend however b/c you want them to know your still hurt. after a while maybe tell them that your sorry for whatever you did, and if there's ever a way to be friends again, (and if you want to) than you totally would try to be friends. but if being friends doesnt work out, you should move on with new friends who will be true friends to you. (because ditching you not only for totally a new crowd and on halloween alone were some pretty low things to do) good luck i hope i helped!
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