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my friend
hey. i'll try to be as brief as possible. my friend is in love with this guy and all she can ever talk about with me is him. it's really annoying. i've tried talking about it with her before, but she just sarcastically apologizes, IMs me the next day being like, "hello. what is up with u?" and i go, "uh nm jc u" and she's like, "Nothing. Nothing at all." and it makes me so mad! and i know that she talks about it with her otherr girlsss but like, jeez. ugh i hate her SO much. i just wanna punch her in the face and be like, "U know what bitch? maybe if u spent five fucking minutes studying, u wouldn't be failing every class. so wake up, honey, life's not all about boys." but i KNOW i can't! pleez help alison marie ♥
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
Well, you COULD say that, but then you wouldn't have much of a friendship left.
The first thing you have to do is think about how much the friendship is worth to you. Just she just annoy you by talking about this guy, or is she consistently annoying you? If the friendship is more pain then gain, it might be time to (nicely) move on.
If you want to stay friends, then I think you've taken a good first step by asking her to not talk so much about The Guy with you. She seems to be respecting that by not mentioning him to you, but that also seems to be bugging you. Perhaps you two could compromise and talk about him every now and then? Maybe she feels she can't open up to you about what's important to her.
And what's important to her isn't necessarily important to you. That's why you've got to think about what you want to happen. If you guys have completely different priorites and personalities, it might be best for both of you to cut back on the time you spend together.
Best of luck.
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