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This is long, but Im going insane.


Question Posted Wednesday November 2 2005, 8:23 pm

I'm never happy. Right now I feel like going psycho on my parents and just cussing them out! Im so freakin angry right now. I CANT DO ANYTHING WITHOUT THEM ASKING ME 5465718 BILLION QUESTIONS. I'm 16 years old and they treat me like Im 10. Why are all my friends aloud to do something after school and Im not? " BECAUSE YOU DONT DO **** around the HOUSE Ashley! You have no responsibility. You're just this selfish little girl who doesn't respect anything. " Ok. So I come home from school today. Clean the pantry out. Clean the kitchen. Clean my room. Know what they say? Wow this spot on the floor here has been there forever. I FEEL GUILTY ASKING TO GO TO A CHURCH WITH ONE OF MY FRIENDS. Once I get my own job, THAT IS if Im aloud to PICK WHERE I'D LIKE TO WORK, I'm going to be making my OWN money so I won't have to use any of HIS. Omg, someone, I'm going insane. I can't take it here. I want out. My mom is flippin bipolar. She's always giving me some kind of dirty look and has some reason to be mean. All they do is make me feel ugly inside. I just want to be left alone.....yet I want someone so bad

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sportychick22 answered Thursday November 3 2005, 7:32 pm:
Wow, I kinda know how you feel. My parents can be like that sometimes, especially my mom. I'm not allowed to go out with friends at all. My mom always has this hold on me and won't let me out of her sight. She treats me like a child too and I'm 15. I usually do extracirricular activites to stay out of the house longer and to spend more time with friends. All I can think of to say is try to keep your head up and don't do anything crazy. Hope things get better for you.

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Solemnstar answered Thursday November 3 2005, 9:21 am:
was there a question there?

but i get it.
my parents are simaler.
i guess they are preparing you for life when you need to do everything for your self.
or they want to do the oppasite and make you stay with them for as long as they can.

eather way.
yelling at them or getting mad wont help
continuie with what youve been doing for them
ask them honestly for friends to come over.if they say yes youve earned thier trust
if no.
ask why
dont yell or whine
ask calmly
and if they yell just respond with "why do you need to yell" "im not yelling so you dont need to"

Solemnstar
p.s it will take time.

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ScArEdToDeAtH99 answered Wednesday November 2 2005, 9:15 pm:
Yes, I feel the same way a lot. It started when my cousin was murdered and I don't know why but I'm always angry. Last night, I was in my room screaming at 11:00 pm. My mom is sometimes annoying. My dad is also annoying. He asks stupid questions and has hearing problems. I have three brothers and a sister-in-law. One brother is 14, one is 18, and my brother and sister-in-law are 22. They just had a new born baby who is a boy. I will be moving in with them in January and I am overjoyed. My brother and I are best friends. Try to get closer to your siblings if you have any. They can help you more than you think. They know exactly what you're going through. Hope I helped.

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shake answered Wednesday November 2 2005, 9:04 pm:
Get a job.

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