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ok my friend is starting to break away from me because of her boyfriend! she pays way to much attention to him and barely any to me! for example i went to six flags and me and two of my other friends were going to meet her there and when we saw her we were like "hey anna!" and she barely waved and ran off to get in line for a ride...then we went to the same ride and saw them in line and her boyfriend waved at us and i waved and looked away and then he whispered something to anna and she looked back at us and starting laughing with her boyfriend and made a rude face! i really want to be her friend but she acts like she doesnt care for me and when i try to be her friend and tell her how i feel she is just like "ok" and thats all and she doesnt do anything about it!! i really dont like it because we have been friends for the longest time. she also is boy crazy and doesnt pay attention to me and im worried we she gets older and is in highschool she might get pregnant or do something even worse...please help!
--losing a best friend
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Hey hun usually this happens to alot of people who are friends with some one who is in a relationship. But one thing friends have to remember is that guys do not come first, friends do.
Guys come and go and will break your heart but a friend will always be there for you to have a shoulder to cry on.
But when some one is in a new relationship they want to spend as much time as possible with the other person and that is what your friend is doing but also
what your friend is doing to you is not right and the fact that she doesn't even listen and just says "ok" shows that she does not care.
Just because she is boy crazy does not really mean that she will get pregnant in high school.
I would not want to have a friend who does not care about my feelings, does not pay any attention to me, and laughs at me with her boyfriend but that is just me. If you really want to be her friend then you really need to talk to her one on one.
You could also try ignoring her for a week and see if she comes running to you. If she doesn't then that just proves that she could care less.
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