Question Posted Wednesday October 19 2005, 10:16 pm
alright well my friend asked me out and he likes me. and i like him, just not as much as he likes me. i like him, but not really enough to go out with him. but silly me i said yes to him because i didn't wanna hurt him. but i know that i'm probably hurting him worse just by going out with him. like he tells me he loves me and i know i don't feel that way back towards him but i still say it...is this really bad? because i don't really know what to tell him...
Altruistic answered Thursday October 20 2005, 12:13 am: I think this is bad o___o You should tell him the truth. It might hurt him, but it'd be better than telling him that after going out with him... that would probably hurt a lot more. Tell him you still want to be friends, but only friends. If he's hurt over that, well, it's a lot better than hurting him a lot more by 'leading him on'. I hope you can clear things up with your friend :) [ Altruistic's advice column | Ask Altruistic A Question ]
russianspy1234 answered Wednesday October 19 2005, 11:46 pm: yes its bad, in the long run you are hurting him ALOT more than saying no would have. i suggest cutting it off now, before you have to do something else you dont want to "just to be nice" [ russianspy1234's advice column | Ask russianspy1234 A Question ]
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