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fm/15 just friends or more?


Question Posted Wednesday October 19 2005, 7:03 pm

i'm 15 and i've only really had serious relationship, but i have this best guy friend of mine. i love being around him and he is so easy to talk to. i've known since 6th grade so he knows that he can joke with me and i know that i can joke with him. but lately i've begun to have feelings for him. i flirt with him, but i'm a BIG flirt so he doesn't think it means anything. and lately he has been joking about certian things that are like kinda teasing since i like him. and he'll tickle me or hug me and i don't want him to let go.

my problem is that i don't want things to change between us, but i want to go out with him, and i don't know how to let him know without making things werid between us. help?!


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Avakian answered Wednesday October 19 2005, 11:35 pm:
Well, things have already become weird for you, so just accept it and tell him. Yes, you could just keep flirting and hope he figures it out, but that might not work.

If he's a really good friend, he hopefully wouldn't avoid you even if he didn't feel the same way.

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Ivy921 answered Wednesday October 19 2005, 7:31 pm:
Well, things have already kinda changed between you two at least in your mind since you like him, right? So hoping things won't change is pretty impossible, but don't worry, that isn't bad news.
I think he may like you back too. I'm sure he's feeling similar to you and also scared to admit it to you as well.
I would say keep doing what you are doing. No need to have a big conversation, that would make it weird. I would say keep flirting, he'll keep flirting back and pretty soon i bet things with happen.
Good luck and keep me posted!

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