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okay so there is this guy that i met at the beginning of the school year and i liked him. well at least i thought so. well on fall break we went to the movies and other dates. this past week i thought alot about him and if i really liked him or not and i realized the only reason i liked him is because of all the attention that he gave me and i just really wanted someone to care about me. but i cant keep leading him on like this and play some stupid game. so how do i tell him without really hurting him?
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Just tell him that you THOUGHT you really liked him, but you realize now it's just friendship and wanting someone to be close with. )=
♥ Melissa
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say hey well thanks for all the fun this week your an awesome FRIEND and we should hang out more. be like, im so glad you care about me so much! Im so glad i found a friend like you! just some tips so that he thinks you think your just friends if he says i thought we were more then friends or something like it be like well i dont really think of you that way... hope i helped ♥ Kelley ♥
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Awe, sticky situation but believe it or not this happends alot. Well theyres gonna be no real easy way but I'd suggest something along the lines like; Listen, at the time I really thought I liked you but the truth is I really don't and I think you deserve someone that will be able to devote themselves to you but I'd still like to be friends with you. This I believe would be a little less painful than "hey i dont like you...opps?" Well hopefully this helps some what if you need anymore help by all means ask me and I'll try my best. Good luck.
-Andrew
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ok well at least you know it isn't right to lead people on, it can end up really hurting a guy.... i would know....well we ain't here to talk about me so back to your question,
all you have to do is take it down a level, back down to friends, and as for trying not to hurt him....ok im not sure if this applies to this but w/e im gonna say it anyway,"you don't know pain until you know love, and you don't know love until you know pain"......yea i don't think that quote really applied lol
(this is how i think it should be, and this is how i do things) if he liked you enough to go out with you then.....wait you are going out right?, well this could easily be solved if you aren't going out, just lay off each other for awhile
ok well if you are going out then back to what i was saying, if he liked you enough to go out with you then he should have no problem doing what ever makes you happy....even if it leaves him outta the picture.....(*sigh* this question is bringin back good memories....)im sayin all of this outta my own exeriance....but i just looked as it as a muscle, you have to rip a muscle before it can become stronger
but i say you should just say that you just wanna be friends but avoid saying things like "i just don't like you anymore" cause thats just mean. say somethin like....well there's really no nice way to put it,say the reason why you don't really like him anymore
but since im guessin you wanna know what to say, i guess you should say somethin like you think of him more as a brother not as a b/f and that you wanna stay friends
well thats really the best i got....if you know me contact me or somethin, i give better advice when im talkin face to face or on the phone or on aim, it doesn't let me think to much....i mess my self up when i do that lol
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tell him that you realize that you just like him as a friend and that you dont mean to hurt him but you feel its not right to lead him on.
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