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Question Posted Saturday October 15 2005, 12:36 am

13 / Ladyy ♥

1. eh. im so confused. i have so meny mixed feelings. One of my friends (guy) is like inlove with me, & my good friend likes him...but i dont like him @ he hugs me & stuff, & trys to put his arms around me but i kind of push him away. and he said to my face...hes just like i love you ok? but not really in a serious way. & i want him to stop liking me & (S0RRY IF IM MAKING THIS CONFUSING!!) start to like her. but its just werid having him head over heals for me. how can i make him stop?

2. I still like my ex Boyfriend & its been like a long time since we've broke up. but sometimes i feel like i like alot more guys? ... i like my ex like alot alot, & another guy a bit, but i really dont know why bc when we went out he was an ass whole. and then i feel sometimes i like my friend (guy). Its just werid. i feel like i like so many people at one time, & then i dont. Im sorry if you dont get my point but can you help me out?



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Teza answered Saturday October 15 2005, 1:16 am:
You can't make him stop liking you and it probablly won't happen anytime soon. It's exactly the same way with your ex. You can't make yourself stop liking it. You need to talk to this friend that likes you and just tell him that you like him no more then a friend and that you would like him to stop getting all over you because you don't like it. The girl that likes him, do they know each other well? If they don't, you need to get them together a lot so they could talk and get to know each other more and more. You never know, he might start to fall for her.

Its very normal to still have feelings for your ex boyfriend. Trust me, they are very hard to get rid of and I know exactly what you are going thorugh. I've been there. Your feelings are very strange and you don't really know what's going on and who you like. You must of loved this guy or liked him a lot. Even though he was a jerk, you still care about him. Sometimes liking other guys is a way of thinking that you will get over your ex. It's normal to like a lot of guys but it's not exactly liking them. It's more of a "crush" thing. You really can't make this go away because it will on its own. If thing are meant to be good with you and your ex, they will but when the time is right it will happen. Figure things out as it happens and all of the things you are feeling and going through are normal.

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