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well there is this guy and i kinda lead him on..but i did kinda like him at first but now i have a boyfriend and he told me he loved me and i really dont know what to doo...and i really hurt his feelings and i feel really bad...what should i do??
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Talk to him tell him you didn t mean to lead him on and that your happy with your boyfriend and for now you only want to be friends make sure he know you care about him but not in that way telll him that in the begining you did like him but now you happy being friends with him.Hope i helped!
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Wanna know something sorta funny? I had this boy that was SOOOO in love with me named Mike.. i never really liked him but yeahh, i lead him on to. Mike treated me soo well.. he gave me 50 dollars for a chirstmas present and he made me all this stuff and i prolly have over 500 notes that he gave me. I kept them all too. But yeahh, once he moved i felt soo bad.. he told me he loved me one last time. I had a boyfriend too. Ok but this isnt about me.. its about you..
ok your situation sounds sorta like the story of ME.. but yours is a little bit different.. well.. dont try to lead him on anymore tell him that you really love being friends with him and all but you dont like him more then that.. write him some notes and stuff that can make him smile but just make sure that you stick with your boyfriend and make you boyfriend happierrr.. just good luckk.. im SOO sorry if i didnt help.. but this is more of a follow ur heart situation
<3 Kiki
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look at it this way : if you dont lay down the line, its like you will be playing 'mind games' with him..and thats not good at all. ive seen it done to my friends..its been done to me..its not something fun. so you have to tell this boy you dont like him ..you have a bf now and how you dont see him that way. thats what i would do.
-melissa-
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umm hey well its ok to do a little flirting but make sure your not leading him on(yeah i do that a lot myself) but do you love your boyfriend right??? just dont tell the guy you were leading on that you love ur boyfriend and that your sorry and you wish to be his friend still <3...
hope i helped
~lizzybeth
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Who told you they loved you? the other guy? i dont think your ready for a boyfriend if you find yourself questioning the relationship. ALthough i do question my relationship with my boyfriend but i dont question it for another guy. So if you find yourself debating whether who you should be with then i think you should just take load off your shoulders and take a break and try to just meet new people. Maybe go to the movies with your current boyfriend and a movie with that other guy and see what date you like better. Make a list who has better qualities and etc.
trix
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you should give it time and appoligize to the guy that you hurt. I know what thats like. You need to think about what happened. You also need to know how you feel about your boyfriend and make sure that you are not leading him on too. Just be careful on what you do and appoligize to the guy that you hurt. Explain to him that you can still be friends but you don't like him that way.
by the way 18/f here
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Well how much do you like this other guy? If I was in your shoes and I done that I would think to my self of which one i like more and which one would treat me better. Since you have a boyfriend and he told you he loved you thats sweet and all but do you know if he really means it? He could be saying it because he doesnt want you to go out with that other guy. You and that guy she talk it out and see how much he likes you or if he likes you at all. Hope I gave you some useful advice...
:*:Shawntay:*:
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