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PLEASE HELP♥ okay heres my PROBLEM:
im 13/f. i am practically in love with this guy, hes 15. alot of people say 15 isnt too old for me, but i am now worrying that he wouldnt look at me in that way. i need to go out with this ked, or else my whole life will be miserable. what can i do to catch his attention?
BY THE WAY!!!!!! - i ONLY see him on fridays. its for a club thing [CAP.]
SO PLEASE HELP ME!♥
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Hey,
Well the people that have told you 15 isnt to old for you are right. Age is not even that important unless the person is like ten years older than you. Its the level of maturity that is found between two potential partners that really matters.
As for getting that guy I suggest you strut your stuff lie there is no tommorow, flirt while making sure your not coming across as desperate (because by the sounds of it yuou could easily appear as being dsperate), play the ice maiden, let him come to you.
Cheers. ]
I was 13 when I started going out with my boyfriend who was 15. we are still together and I am 15 and he is 17.
just so you know
-Kelsey<3
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I can understand where you are coming from with the whole you're thirteen he's fifteen thing cuz my friends do it all the time, but rarely will a guy that much older pay attention to you unless you are giving him the goods, lol. Seriously though, if you think he's not like that and he might be interested, you should try to hook up "as friends" and then plan your next move if you think there's a chance for more. I wouldn't plunge right into cold water though, I'd take it slow because of the age difference. Well, good luck, and hope this helps. :) ]
For the record,
You are thirteen, it won't ruin your life hon. There are plenty of other guys out there.
Okay, now that that's over. :P
Do you talk to him a lot? If not, try and dig into his hobbies, try and catch what you both have in common, and embrace it.
To catch his attention? Be yourself! If that doesn't attract him? It's not worth it.
-Hope it helps.
--Good Luck, and God Bless.
Hailie ]
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