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Question Posted Monday October 10 2005, 10:44 am

I fantasize about other guys and penises when I masturbate. Does that mean I'm gay or bi?

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adviceman49 answered Thursday March 20 2014, 9:51 am:
Relax; the mere fact that you are asking this question says you are not gay. You don't wake up one morning and decide you are gay. Being gay is something you are born with. It is part of your sexuality and you would know before now that you were gay.

What is happening is you are discovering your sexuality. Depending on how old you are you may not have much to identify with than other boys your age. As you get older and start mixing with girls your masturbation fantasies will turn to the female breasts and sex organs.

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Drewb13 answered Thursday March 20 2014, 2:35 am:
RELAX. You're just curious about your sexuality. Your fantasies just mean that you are curious. NOTHING is wrong with being curious or "discovering yourself" as some people like to call it. Nothing can make you gay unless you actually say that you are gay. There's nothing wrong with being different.

If you like men, you like men. If you prefer women, you prefer women. If you like both, you like both. NOTHING and NOBODY can define who you are except for you.

I hope this helps.

~Andrew~

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the_billybob182 answered Monday October 10 2005, 4:28 pm:
im assuming your a guy...so im gonna answer it like your a guy

first off you didn't say you liked girls...so if you don't like girls than that would make you gay

but if you do like girls than that would make you bi

and i wouldn't mind knowin who this is.....

usually i would think this is aaron...but it was posted today while i was at school...and he was here today.....

but really it would be nice to know who this is..cause it's lookin like you got some problems lol

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