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HI! it's marie again. i have another question.
well, i told the father the other night that i'm pregnant with his child and he said that's great, and he asked me to marry him! i consulted my parents and they were okay with it and supported me all the way. we get married a month from yesterday, but i'm starting to have second thoughts.my mom is taking me to pick out a dress tommorrow though. i'm going to get a great one, and all the bridesmaids are going to wear hot pink is what i want, and i can't wait. but seriously, i'm starting to have second thoughts... i love this man, and he loves me, and i can't wait to have his child- and many more in that matter- but i just kind of think we're rushing in to things...what do you think? your advice is great and i think you're a great person... anything could help!!
Marie
(P.S.- my email is mcclean89@yahoo.com, and my aim screen name is cheerleaderbabestl. i look forward to hearing from you soon!)
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Well, first off, thats wonderful that he asked you to marry him, its really great that hes going to support you! And I'm glad things turned out ok. I just want you to know that its more than normal to experiance second thoughts with marriage, everyone has them, but that doesn't mean you shouldn't take them a little seriously. You say that hes a great man, and you love each other, theres really no problem it sounds like, so its probably just fear of whether it'll be ok or not. The best that you can do with your fearful feelings is to share them with your boyfriend. You'll really love the support from him, and it will make it easier for you. Things probably do feel rushed because of the baby coming and suddenly you're becoming and mother and wife soon, thats a really huge change for women. Its a big step in a woman's life. I want you to go ahead and look at dresses tomorrow, and at least let your boyfriend know that its really stressful at times, and he may be feeling the same, who knows, but as long as you stay open with your feelings. I think, that once you start looking at dresses and trying them on, or just doing marriage erands, you'll kind of feel better about it, and it might ease the pressure. I'm so glad that you came back with an update! I love it! Thank you so much! You can talk to me anytime you need, just inbox my name and I'll be there!
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