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Question Posted Thursday October 6 2005, 11:24 pm

ok well i have a boyfriend, but it's not really working out.. i like this other boy 2 NOT THAT I"D EVER CHEAT ON MI BF! but well its nice to know that he liked me back.. but then he started to not like me and begin 2 like mi TWIN SIS!!! grr idk wat 2 do.. i'm upset

Jackie thanks!!


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dhrutts answered Friday October 7 2005, 8:50 am:
Let's say you fall for someone big time. You don't even have to be dating. It can be a crush that turns to a fantasy, maybe an obsession. Whatever the case, if the object of your affection doesn't share your feelings it can spark a sense of loss, yearning and frustration that may prove hard to overcome

Every experience is unique, but a pattern has to build for the sense of love to become so strong that it threatens to overwhelm. For example, just spending a lot of time thinking about that person, without actually seeing them, can cause your feelings to grow out of proportion.

Only time can help get strong emotions into perspective. You can't fall out of love with someone overnight, after all, and in some ways you need to grieve for this lost love. It's easy to become withdrawn from everyday life when you're bewitched by someone who doesn't feel the same way, but it's vital that you get out and fill your time constructively.

Surround yourself with friends, and lean on them to help regain control. Talking will help get things in perspective, but if that makes you feel uncomfortable then just time spent having a laugh in their company can remind you that there's more fun to be had being a free agent.

Goodluck

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BeastFromTheWeast answered Friday October 7 2005, 2:22 am:
If its not working out with your boyfriend..dump him.
As long as you have a boyfriend, this other dude doesnt even have a chance with you, so why would he wait? Why not go for your twin sister?
Stop being upset and just do something about it.

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