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dilemma.


Question Posted Tuesday October 4 2005, 7:31 pm

My name is kristina.. Im 16 && In a very awkward situation.

Me && my bestfriend have been friends for 15 years.. one day this summa we went to chill at her boyfriends house.. ( of 2 years) and one of his friends were there.. ( austin ) we chilled for a while.. and started talking alot. Suddenly after 3 weeks or so, we stopped talking because i had gone back home.. which was an hour away. when i moved to the same town.. he became one of my very good friends. My friend and austin, new i liked him. one night we were all drinking, they ended up hooking up. even though she knew i liked him. && the first time it was only to get back at her ex bf for cheating on her, she she went to his best friend. which i thought was a pretty shitty thing to do. After that ordell, she started becoming obsessed, buying pens that said his name on them calling him 24/7.. everything. but on the other side.. her and her ex were still hooking up and talking. she was playing both of them. soon after that, austin and i started talking again. & hanging out alot. one time we were drunk and started kissing.. but that was it. and when she found out she got mad.. but it was okay for her to do it to me? i didnt understand. a little while after she kept telling me she was over him.. so i told her i liked him and she didnt have a problem. but when the 3 of us got together to drink again, i ended up hooking up with him. & she was pissed.. was it wrong of me to do that? should i still like him? i dont know what to do..


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Teza answered Wednesday October 5 2005, 8:27 am:
It was not wrong of you to do that. Your friend is going pshyco! She is getting jelous way too easy. You liked him way before her and she had a boyfriend. What you need to do it tell the first guy that she is playing both of them. It's wrong of her too do that. Talk to Austin and then talk to her. Tell her she shouldn't be getting mad at you when you liked him for a long time and she had the other guy. She is being very unreasonable.

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