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Hey! Okay my i've been reallly upset lately because I have a crush on this boy named Jason and he likes my best friend, Gina. All the guys like her and it really sucks for me because Jason is the ONLY boy I like, and I like him so much. Well, i'll say to Gina you're so lucky the one person I like likes you, and she says haha. She doesn't even try to make me feel better about it. I also see him hugging her all the time and it makes me upset, and when we all hang out he doesn't pay attention to me because Ginas always there. I'll also invite Gina over and she'll say "Oh well this person asked me to hang out first so I can't." She does that to me and my two other best friends alot (who are also her best friends). Shes also inviting this one girl everywhere we go and this girl is cool and everything but it's just annoying because I miss just me, Gina, Carly, and Sarah [ our other two best friends ] always haning out, but we can't do that anymore because all these boys come whenever we invite Gina since they all like her. I also get in alot of fights with Gina because she acts like shes the queen. What should I do?! Gina is really annoying me lately but I don't want anything to come between our friendship because i've been friends with her since first grade! [ I'm 14 by the way ]. Don't say talk to her about it because that never works. Thanks!
--> Jamie
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I just read your problem and that is a bad situation. What I would do is tell her im through with you and your not bossing me around.
I would just forget about her and hang with good friends. Hope it works!
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Tell her the truth. What you think of her and whats going on. I hate to say this, but as people grow older they change and they start wanting different things. It looks to me as if Gina is growing apart from you and your other friends because she wants a different lifestyle and you guys want to stick to the old ways. And I'm sorry, but if you have all this to say about her, you cant say that 'you want nothing to come between your friendship'. And also, it looks like she doesn't give a shit to me. No seriously, I mean look at you, you're being a good friend - you care about all the changes and are handling the whole thing about Jason maturely where as she is being selfish about it, in my opinion. And immature. So TRY to talk to her about it, point it out to the other girls, all of you talk to her about it, if she doesn't comply then leave it at that, because there's not much you can do. I know its hard. Good luck Jamie.
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i hate to say it but thats the only way you can get across to anyone realy tell it how it is to her dont twist the story to be nice just tell it how you feel you should talk to your other friends at the same time and maybe you will all agree but you have to rtake note that you have probly ganged as well every one dose and if your friendship means the same to her as it means to you then shell help make time for you and your friends. me and my friends have a day of the wekk were every tusedays after school we all (girls)go to get a coffie or milkshake together and we dont bring any boys and no matter what we dont miss out on it unless its real important you should organise somthing like that with your friends and open up to your friends about every thing it helps if you talk to them.
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