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ok... Ok....first he broke up with me but he also told me he wanted me to find someone better then him.....but....he told me he still wanted me.And that he still loves me.He only told me to go and find someone better because he smokes pot so yea. So i dont know what to do or say to get him back.
can anyone help and not tell me that he doesnt want me when he keeps on telling me he does!??????!?!?!?!!
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you shouldn't go out with a guy that smokes pot or anything like that because he could get like really stupid or high and not treat you right or he might do something really bad to you.just try to get someone else that doesn't smoke pot. ]
Ditch him, he's a pot smoking loser. Can't you get a boyfriend that does more hardcore drugs?? ]
He probably does want a relationship w/ you, but can't because you DO deserve someone that doesn't do something like that. This guy's heart is in the right place. I can see why he would do that, you can still love him, but he needs help. He's looking out for what's best for you. I have a friend that was like this. Good luck and I hope I helped a little. ]
Funny thing about pot is it can help you see through all the programmed bs in your brain and see the truth. Your friend seems to be struggling with deep, internal issues that the pot is bringing to the surface. Sometimes it's hard to deal with these new and unknown/unwanted feelings. If you really like him, try finding the root cause of his problems. No one has a drug/alcohol problem, people only have life problems. Substance abuse is just an indicator of a problem, and it is not THE problem.
Talk to him when he's sober and ask him what you can do to help. ]
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