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cant stand teh best friend...totally complicated
alrighty, i asked this question but i failed to make one thing clear...this girl lives with me. her mom and my mom are best friends, and they moved in together like as roommates, so i live here all teh time and she lives here with her brother and sister when they're with their mom. so here's teh question again, but keep in mind that i live with her.
ok, my best friend and i have known each other since we were 2. we're actually a lot more like sisters, because we know everything about each other. we're now sophomores in high school, and she has yet to make one friend of her own. every friend she has was because i was friends with them first, which isnt a problem, but she needs to seriously be able to make her own friends. we have EVERY class together, and she just tags along. i never get a break from her. i cant stand her attitude, and if i hadnt have known her my whole life i probably wouldnt choose to be friends with her. she judges everyone and is just plain mean. i honestly need to get away from her but i cant, and i cant talk to her because shell just go crying to MY friends and try to get them to be on her side. what the hecks and i supposed to do!?!?
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I want to say first that you must have a lot of patience to put up with that. But anyways, about your question. Have you tried hinting that she should make some other friends??? She might take that as you being mean but if you tried to explain that you two can't always be around each other, maybe she'd understand. Try to escape to some other friends who she doesn't know. Just talk to them about it and maybe they could mention something to her. Also tell her that she won't get many friends if she acts like crap. Nobody wants to hang around a mean person. So just be honest with her for her sake and hopefully she'll understand. Hope i helped and good luck!!!
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