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Question Posted Wednesday September 21 2005, 8:44 am

As I just thought I just called him he is away for some time to discuss the matter he just says (I hope thats not i think it is because I can't go through for what i have been not again thats the last thing he needs now in his life) Financial when I think he can because He showed me his salary advice some time but since you will never know all the responsibilities for someone,and he asked me not to tell my sisters until we talked when he is back, I just lost words I dont even know what to say If there was no point to explain to my parents I would know what to do without his opnion, so tell me what can I say to him when we talk.

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karenR answered Wednesday September 21 2005, 9:02 am:
You know what? Since you and him are no longer dating you don't owe it to him to keep this to yourself.

If your mom or sisters can be of help to you right now...today. Then don't wait to talk to them. You and your baby are the important ones here. You do what makes you feel good. That will be the best thing for your baby. Keep mama happy!

You honestly don't need the added stress of keeping it from your family. They can probably help you deal with things and decide what to do.

If he makes enough money to help financially then he can be made to help you whether he likes it or not. He may not like it but he should have thought of that before getting into a relationship.

You already know his opinion about the baby. He has said from what I can gather that he wants nothing to do with it. That's really sad. I hope you don't let him talk you into doing something you don't want to do. That is why I think you need to let your family know. They can help with that.

How do you feel about it yourself? Are you wanting to have a baby right now? It is hard to do it on your own but possible.

Seriously think about telling your family. At least someone in your family. Please let me know how it goes for you. This should be a happy time for you. Stop back anytime, okay? :)

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