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my friend's (were not real close.. shes close friends with my friends) boyfriend and her have a real open raltionship. she told him she didnt care if we kissed as long as he told her. so we did kiss, but he never told her, but she found out from someone else. so she got pissed and took a break with him, but got back with him about 2 weeks later. that was about a month and half ago, and recently we kissed again, but i didnt think it was big deal as long as we told her right away. but it was and she got soo pissed. she dumped him and now shes way mad at me. i said i was sorry and how horrible i felt but she didnt even care. i dont know what to do to show her how sorry i am and how stupid i was. i dont think theres really anything i can do for now, but i could use advice anyway.
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Okay, whether your close or not it still hurt her feelings. She should have never said that you and her boyfriend could kiss unless he told her. That wasn't right, but again it wasn't right of her boyfriend to kiss you. If he truly loved her and respected her he wouldn't kiss any other girl because he only wants one girl and thats her. She could have lined up a million girls in front of him and told him to kiss them, but if he loved her enough he wouldnt. I know a guys first instinct is to do that, but sounds like he doesnt have much of a brain to think about things beforehand. Maybe she told you and him that as a test to see if he would do it, to see how easy it would be for him to get with someone else. I know you feel bad, and you thought she wouldnt care because she said so, but the best thing you can do is talk to her about it. Mention she told you that it was okay as long as you told her, and then mention how sorry you are for even doing that with someone else's boyfriend, because again if you respected her you would have thought it to be wrong in the first place to kiss someone else's boyfriend. But sorry is the only thing that can cut it, there really is nothing else expect to talk, call her up and tell her what I told you and stuff. She probably shouldn't be with that guy again anyways, he sounds like a jerk if he would buy into something like his girlfriend giving him permission to kiss someone else, I don't think that is common in a relationship.
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