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I've been upset with a friend that I have known for quite a few years. We never fought, we were just good friends, and she comes over a lot. I guess my problem with her was her being over at my house too much. Over the summer, she spent EVERY night with us. Its to the point, where its like I have no privacy, or no room to breathe. I've talked to my mom mom about this numerous times, and its like she listens, but shes not taking action. I know my next answer would be to talk to my friend, I want to say something to her, but I don't think I could handle it. Recently, she told a friend of mine that she lies to get through to my family just to spend the night. She spent the night last night, which was a school night. She told my mom that her parents were out of town, so as always, my mom believed her, and she spent the night. Now, whats keeping her here is that my younger sister wants her over all of the time, so once she gets sent home, she comes right back because of my sister. I will not talk to my sister about this, shes just not, I just can't, shes really out of control and is selfish. I guess what I'm asking is, what should I do? And if I should talk to her, how should I go about telling her? I really don't want to tell her to her face, I can't reject someone like that, its really hard. I just can't take the lies and the insanity. Its hard to miss her when she never goes away.
What are my other two options other than talking to my sister, and my mom?
Thank you very much in advance.
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well you should confront your friend and ask her to give you some room and ask her to stop lying to ur parents.i hope i helped.
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well first off i think that you should confront this friend and tell her that you feel that you could have no better friend its okay to get in arguements....like me and my best friend, we live together we have ever since this past summer.... i talk to her about how we would get a long much better if we didn't act like sisters because when we did that we just got in fights all the time.....but tell it would be best for yall to have some alone time so that ya'll can actually miss ach other ....tell her not to think that you dont want to be the best of friends but you would perfer it if ya'll could actually talk to each other every once in a while.....also tell her that it is floating around the school that she is lying to your family to go to your house and tell her that she doesn't have to lie to go over there ....it would be better likely to tell the truth and be rejected a few times than be lying....tell her its okay if she wants to hang with you a lot and tell her that you want hang out w/ her too...but sometimes you need a lone time.....if she thinks that you dont want to hang out w/ her , tell her she has the wrong idea and that you would never do some thing like that tell her ya'll will be bst friends for life an that you just need maybe a couple days out of the week to your self....but whatever youchose to do, i know it will be the right choice...if you are to have any moe problems feel free to ask, you know where i will be@
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