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Best Friend Snogging MY ex's???
The title says it all, my apparent "best mate" has went with my ex boyfrieds (Yes I am gay) on three seperate cases, and I dont think its fair or amusing in the slightest. He has saidthat he was sorry for doing there on saturday, and told me that he was verydrunk, but I would never do that, espically in front of me. I know the gay scene is a little promiscious, but come on!Any advice on how to approach him, its becoming annoying!
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Look, promiscuous or not, that's pretty disrespectful, especially if it becomes a pattern.
My question for you is, do you think anything will change if you approach your friend about his behavior? They are your ex boyfriends, he probably didn't see anything wrong with it, even if it annoys you, there is no real reason for him not to do it again.
If this is something that really bothers you look for friends that share your values, not the entire gay scene is promiscuous and a hook-up culture. I know many nice monogamous and conservative gay couples and individuals, they just take a bit more work to find.
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As they're *ex* boyfriends I don't think you have too much say in who they snog. However if you've told your best mate that his going with your exes causes you pain and he's persisting with the behaviour then he doesn't sound like much of a mate.
I'd look into finding some nicer friends.
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