Question Posted Saturday September 10 2005, 10:55 pm
everytime i get a bf i tend to push him away like after a day or two i dont like him anymore
then when i lose him i want him back
why do i always do this why does this always happen
urmom123 answered Saturday September 10 2005, 11:07 pm: hey u just need to lay off guys for a lil while maybe for like a month and then see if it happens again and if it does lay off guys for a looong time try to get to like the guy alot and then it may not happen again
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TheTeenGirl answered Saturday September 10 2005, 11:03 pm: I think you're having trouble holding on. Try giving a guy you like a chance, even when theres a moment, or a day you feel like you don't like him, give this guy a fair chance and get to know him. Keep in mind how much you regret dumping a guy when you think of getting rid of another one. Its ok to date around, but it sounds like you're moving a little too fast. Slow it down and get to know a guy, you don't really know if you like him or not yet until you get to know him a little more.
rikatree2375 answered Saturday September 10 2005, 11:02 pm: Personally, it sounds like either you're not ready for that kind of commitment or you just dont truly like the guy. Maybe get to know these guys a little better before you decide to date them. Find out if you really care about them in that kind of way. You might just need them more as friends then bf's. Take things slower with them and i'm sure they'll understand. Hope i helped ya!!!
icey0990 answered Saturday September 10 2005, 10:59 pm: thats a very good question..
it could be you just like the chase..and once you have the guy, you get bored . i mean maybe for now the single life is for you..not to worry, your still young and its ok if your not into long term relationships..or any relationships at all [ icey0990's advice column | Ask icey0990 A Question ]
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