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a guy gone to far
16/m ok i really need help on this one im stuck and dont know what to do i love my gf to death and we have been going out for 11 months but she works at a local gym called lifetime as a swim instructer and the other day she walked out and a guy walked out with her and she knew this guy but he walked her all the way to her car and when she got in her car the guy reached for a drink inside the car and as he did that he kissed her on the lips she said she didnt kiss back and pushed him away and i talked to some of her freinds and she told me the truth but i feel like i need to do somthing and the fact that she came forward and told me about it. she started out by saying that she really doesnt feel comfterble telling me this because i could meke us worse but its tearing her up inside so she told me. and im really glad she did this but i want to beet the crap out of the guy not only for kissing her but he made her hurt and made her scared to tell me somthing she went 2 days with this inside her. what do i need to do
p.s hes a soph. in college and we are soph. in highschool
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The guy should've gotten the message by her refusing his attention, so approaching him is unnecessary at this point. It's only if he is intent on pushing his affection that the school counsellor should be talked to.
Your girlfriend's fear isn't so much as the guy's fault as the fact she was probably worried that you would misunderstand what happened. For all she knew, you could really be an insecure guy and lash out at both of them. This isn't unreasonable as many guys are easily threatened by even the faintest hint that their girl might be involved with some other guy.
I know what it's like to want to beat the shit out of someone for messing with your mate, but getting violent over something already handled really isn't the best decision.
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You're gf seems to be able to take good care of herself, and you seem to be very protective of your girlfriend which is good! Right now I say that she can took care of herself and to let it go, but if this guy does anything else, then you may have to go do something about it yourself!
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kick his ass
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i honestly dont think that you should beat the crap out of this guy as you put it. if i were ur gf i wouldnt want my bf gettin into fights. you never know what could happen. something could end up goin wrong and shed lose you forever. or ud end up in the hospital. dont do sumthing dumb. the guy is just jelous that you've got a great girl and hes got nothing. he wants what you have and cant have it. your girl loves you...dont be dumb and fight this guy.
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